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Sex toys nowadays are becoming more refined and modern with something to suit everyone’s needs. Whether you’re into using restraints for bondage to spice up your sex life or looking for a specific vibrator to ignite your passion during solo stimulation, there is a toy for you. With such a wide range of sex toys available for all different kinds of pleasure and sensation, it can be hard to know where to start when choosing the best one for you. Here are some of the best sex toys for 2022 so far.

Massager glove

The massager glove is a great way of connecting with your partner in the bedroom. Massages help to up the heat during your alone time and can elevate the experience to a new level. It is easy and comfortable to use, and it is one of the less-daunting toys you might find. The glove is covered in metallic balls but still flexible, making sure you can reach all those hard-to-get areas. Why not try under the legs, arms neck, or anywhere else the mood might take you? The glove can be used solo but for best results, use it on a partner for full-body, all-over pleasure. 

Graphite anal plug 

Anal plugs are great when used as an introduction to anal sex, so why not opt for a dainty product that will not only feel comfortable inside but has a pretty, glittering gem to the base? You’ll be free to make any movements with this small toy and can be sure that it will fit tightly, but not cause you any pain. You can use it during foreplay or intercourse to engage all your erogenous zones. The graphite gives this toy a gorgeous, sleek shine and is made of skin-friendly material. If you’re looking for something pleasurable and stylish, this anal plug is the one for you. 

Suction Vibrators 

Vibrators are becoming more advanced, smaller, and more convenient to use. There is a vast range of products available that all provide different sensations depending on the intensity of pleasure you’re looking for. Some of the best vibrators for 2022 are clitoral suction toys, bullets, and silent vibrators. Suction vibrators are most talked about and widely promoted, they provide a sucking and vibrating sensation at the same time – this vibrator can provide an incredible pleasure sensation. They are perfect for traveling, they are portable and don’t take up a lot of space, making them a discreet option too! You can use them solo, or to tease your partner before sex. 

App-Controlled Signet cock ring 

This cock ring is a great example of how sex toys are evolving. Like your average cock ring, it restricts blood flow and stimulates the wearer and their partner during sex. But this device is controlled by an app on your phone! The app allows you to choose a selection of vibrations as well as gives you the option to make your own vibration programme. It is made from body-friendly material and is water-resistant, so your fun isn’t limited to the bedroom. 

Fat burners and metabolism my intrinsic link was something I discovered rather by accident. Again I’ve made it no secret that I’m no spring chicken. The struggle to accept that youth truly is wasted on the young. Learning to welcome the fact we all age, is a constant struggle I’d rather live without.

What I was able to accomplish in my younger times, seemed so easy, but as the years pass by, it’s a constant, now conscious struggle. My body slowing down, my mind and energy tiring, and the ever present struggle with weight management. My physical fitness routine, once accomplished with an element of ease to gain the results I so wanted, and got, is now a small battle of the bulge. 

Muscles get softer and harder to maintain, and my time spent at the gym, is just that little bit longer. Ho hum, it’s all of our realities, not just me. A slowing metabolism, that makes you listless, and gain that weight, even with all that careful dietary control and lifestyle changes. 

The reality is, we need to make some slight adjustments. I upped my time at the gym, modified my diet, not only what I eat, but how much, and chilled a bit more on the lavish life of consuming copious amounts of caviar and champagne. Ok, a lot! I’m not suggesting get boring, but everything in moderation.

But…..grappling with these changes, although I was steadfast, didn’t give me the results I was hoping for, at least not at the pace I was. So I started to ask around for advice on what those in my age group were doing. Quick fixes that seemed more like snake oils to me, answers that didn’t make sense, and as I knew, wouldn’t work for me.

So over a cup of coffee before my morning trip to the gym, I got to thinking….. coffee…. caffeine…. energy…. cognitive function? The answer was right there before me all along, all I need to do was think out side the box a little further and do my more of my own research.

Caffeine, Green tea extract, Capsaicin (the hot in Jalapeños), Amino acids, Linoleic acids, L-carnitine, Hydroxy Methylbutyrate, an almost confusing endless list that seemed to get more complex the deeper I got. Ingredients I found in those products billed as “fat burners”or “performance enhancers”. So I tried them. My gang at Body Energy Club certainly have a selection you can choose from.

I’m not sure if the products I tried actually did lead to burning more fat, but they did give me renewed energy. Giving me vitality not only for the gym, but for my busy daily life. Quite possibly the extra zest, was burning more fat.

I’ll be honest, I love the extra energy I get from these supplements added to my daily food intake. Note; added to my daily food intake, not substituted because I very much so believe in a healthy well rounded diet each and every day, throughout the day. These are exactly that, supplements!

What I’ve done is added L-carnitine to my diet along CLA Plus, and some HMB 1000 for my time at the gym. Again I’ll say it, that I try to get as much as I can from that well rounded diet, but I have no aversion to a little added help. I also believe if you want to shed excess pounds, cutting calories from your diet and exercising more regularly won’t hurt. 

However what worked for me, may work for you, or not. I’ve tried and tested quite a bit, and made sure to consult with my doctor along the way. A progressive practitioner who actually listens to me.

I know that as I continue to age in this life, I want to feel, look and be as happy and youthful as I can. It’s my choice, make it yours, get out there and see what works for you. You won’t know till you try.

age·ism
/ˈājˌizəm/
noun
prejudice or discrimination on the grounds of a person’s age.

Let’s be honest, there is no better to way to describe ageism but as plain ugly, and for many engaged in sex work, they too are no strangers to the ageist attitudes of those ugly enough to inflict it.

Sex work is complex delicate work that nurtures the souls of those that seek out the services of providers gracious enough to that provide what they need. A delicate nurturing of mind, body, and soul, so it’s no wonder that those who become attached to their provider, stick with them for a very long time. Over the course of that relationship factors that usually dictate otherwise are obvious, retirement, an address change to a new city or location, and in many circumstances, even death. Just to name a few.

Sex work is an industry that has nurtured a youthful appearance towards sex and sexuality, in favour of overlooking the fact, the population ages. That sex is only for and had by the physically young, which begs the question; what of the young at heart, mind, and soul? Bonds between a client and provider are forged in steel and for those that are willing to go that extra mile, these bonds can be everlasting.

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The art of casual conversation with a stranger, that’s what’s sexy this week.

Actually, it’s more like the lost art of casual conversation, and all a person needs to do is look around themselves once they’ve unglued their faces from their phones. Those little devices we’ve wired ourselves to the world with, the electronic annoyance that has become for many, a buffer from actual connection to the land of the living.

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